If you’re sick and tired of dating women with no femininity, then I have a suggestion for you.

A change of pace if you will. Something that you might not have taken seriously in the past.

I think its time to talk about progressing into a relationship with a Thai woman. If you have been reading this blog then you know that I have been advocating this for some time.

On top of that, I’ve got some advice about how to understand your girlfriend and the culture that she grew up in.

The success of your relationship will come down to how you both understand and adapt to each other’s culture.

Don’t forget that you were raised in very difference societies. Here’s what I mean.

The 2 societies have different traditions, rules and expectations. In simple terms, these things have moulded who you are and what you expect inside of a relationship.

In essence, you are both coming to the table with a different set of assumptions about how the relationship will go.

As a western man, you need to be open minded to cultural differences. Not everyone can do this, but those who can have incredible relationships.

Even with a very open mind, it is difficulty to suddenly adapt to your girlfriends behaviours and mannerisms. However this is where some compromise plays a big role.

With a very open mind, you can make it work, as you understand that you and your girlfriend have very different beliefs that have been built since birth.

An understanding of your partners’ views and beliefs is paramount. You might not always agree on issues (which is normal) but you must understand and respect them.

If you are able to respect and compromise you will be able to create an incredible and long lasting relationship. You will have everything you want from your girlfriend and the lifestyle that you desire.

If you can’t open your mind and except other people’s views, then a Thai-western relationship will not work for you.

To find out more about meeting incredible Thai women who want a lasting relationship then go to www.meetmenowbangkok.com. This is a professional dating service that was created to allow western men and Thai women to meet.

Thai women are raised to be nurturing and to consider the feelings of others before their own.

Macho women decide to place themselves at the centre of the world, and they don’t take others into consideration

Thai women believe that the family is the most important value.

Macho women think of themselves as the most important person.

Thai women like to care for and encourage their partner's, while macho women want to dominate, challenge and beat their partner.

Thai women see a relationship as something to be nurtured and grown.

Macho women see a relationship as a battle and they will do anything to win.

Can you see the differences in the two? Ask yourself which of the two you would prefer to be with.

The choice is yours.

The macho women are growing in numbers. Going by the messages I receive, it seems that more and more men are being turned off by them.

But don’t give up.

There are many more incredible women out there. There are women who want to be part of a natural relationship. A relationship in which each partner is respected for their unique qualities.

I say that it’s natural for a woman to act in a feminine manner. Many women in the west feel that they are being manipulated if they care for their family and show their nurturing side.

They feel that they must compete with men in order to be equal. This is something that has been conditioned by society, but is it really natural?

I don’t think so.

Don’t let the rules of modern society control your own happiness in relationships. If you are not with a woman that you truly enjoy and feel happy with, then maybe its time to step back and try another approach.

Think about dating a special woman from Thailand.

If that sounds like something that you want to have then I suggest you consider www.meetmenowbangkok.com. This is a professional dating service that was created for western men and Thai women to meet.

Anyway, let me know what you think about the growing trend of macho women and how you can bring great happiness to your future relationships.

The last blog post about “macho women” created some good debate. Thanks to everyone who shared an opinion. It’s interesting to find that other people have seen the same thing occurring in their own lives.

Now I want to talk about why the macho women compete against men?

What’s the deal with this anyway?

It seems like these types of women get a kick from challenging, criticising and competing with men. Do you find this attractive behaviour?

To me, it’s not attractive at all.

I enjoy this if it’s done in a flirtatious or fun manner, but this is rare. You see, macho women have a need to embarrass men or make them feel small.  It's weird that they want to be more masculine than a man.

Although this unnatural culture seems to be growing, it doesn’t mean we have to join in. There are valid ways to get everything you want from a relationship with a feminine woman. Of course, first you need to start meeting and dating the right type of women.

As I mentioned in the last couple of posts, I (along with many other men) have found that Asian women exhibit much more femininity than the majority of western women.

There is no reason to settle for a relationship without the passion, zest and romance that you really want. In many ways, people have learned to live without these things in their relationships, but there is no reason to.

The macho women have been conditioned by everything from their church, media and mothers to bypass their natural caring and feminine qualities that men find attractive. They try to live up to the “new rules” of modern society but in the process find themselves in dead-end relationships. Just look and see for yourself.

Please understand that I have personal experience of this, and have seen it occurring in many other couples in western society.

Here’s what else… I see that women from countries like Thailand, Hong Kong and Indonesia have a very engaging femininity that men are drawn to. I don't know exactly why but Asian women are fun, sensuous and generally much happier in life.

This makes for an incredible relationship with an incredible woman.

If that sounds like something that you want to have then I suggest you consider www.meetmenowbangkok.com. This is a professional dating service that was created for western men and Thai women to meet.  You'll need to apply, as all participants submit to full background checks. It is a "no-sleaze, no-scam" service.

But I recommend it as this dating service is for men looking for a life changing relationship with an attractive, fun and feminine woman. If you want an exiting relationship where you can be yourself and feel supported by your partner, then stop dating the macho women. I think you will thank me later.

Look, we seem to agree that these macho women are not doing us any good. So what can blokes do about it?

I know there still are some “real” men out there who have had enough of the macho women and the girlie men. Don’t you think its time that we stood up for ourselves and got what we really wanted.

Look, I don’t care too much for political correctness, and I pretty much do and say as I please. And when it comes to relationships, there is no more important topic for men.

So let me lay it on the line…

For those guys who are fed up with the current state of affairs then listen up. Here’s how I sorted out my own mess.

The girlie men and masculine women trend is a product of the modern “advanced” society. It’s the culture that we are conditioned with. What I found when travelling is that women (and cultures in general) are not this way in the Far East.

In Asia, the women respect men for who they are. They don’t try to challenge them or make them more sensitive. In simple terms, they want real men – not sissies. It all feels much more natural to me. No need to be something you’re not!

In return, the women act like real women. They are true to their nature. They are feminine, attractive and know how to treat a man. In my experience, they understand a man’s needs much more than the modern day women in the west.

I know this is going to draw some criticism, but so be it. Someone needs to stand up and say it.

If you want to judge me then so be it. Bring it on. The fact is, I think I’m speaking for a large majority of single men and fathers here.

I know what it’s like to be in a dead end marriage and then to find real happiness and romance when you think you never will. I don’t think it’s a man’s problem, it’s a symptom of the “cotton wool” society that we live in today.

But here’s the rub. You don’t need to put up with it anymore. You can find a great woman of the type you’ve always dreamed. I’m talking about an attractive, caring, understanding and sexy women.

The good news is that you have a choice now. You see, when I realised this I made a conscious choice to be with a certain type of woman.

That’s why today I am married to a Thai lady. I was sick of trying to conform and being unhappy so I got clear about exactly what I wanted from my relationship. I love how Thai women are engaged in their femininity and have great confidence in who they are as women.

I know that most western man would be shocked (and pleasantly surprised) if they met women from cultures without years of social conditioning. Women from countries like Thailand, Hong Kong, Indonesia and Vietnam don’t try to defeat and challenge men. No, instead they want to bring out male masculinity and support them.

If you are interested in meeting and attracting women that display their true feminine qualities of incredible sensuality and engaging femininity (while being encouraging, fun and confident), then check out www.meetmennowbankok.com

This is a company that I set up to combat this bad trend. My mission is to help out men who are in the same position that I was in. My wife and I have a created a service that allows you to meet real Thai ladies that we’ve screened and personally know as friends.

This is NOT for men seeking one-night stands or short-term girlfriends. This is strictly for men looking to change their lives and finally have a 100% way of meeting a special woman. I will be providing more details about the service in the coming weeks so stay tuned.

I see this is going to be growing trend in the years ahead. Lets face it… men are sick and tired of being told how to act. It’s time to stand up for our own values and have “real” women in our lives.

Here’s another thing that really irritates me: single women are seen as very strong, balanced and well rounded, where single men are often chastised as being abnormal, gay or weird in some way. Come on guys – are you willing to take this much longer?

 

Is it just me? Or have you also noticed how western women have become less feminine? Most of the women I meet seem to be always challenging - and sometimes downright aggressive.

Now I'm all for equality - but does it have to mean that women stop being feminine? Surely women can be strong AND feminine.

I mean, there's really nothing attractive about an aggressive, demanding woman is there? Personally, I like a woman to be feminine and confident in her own feminine sexuality. I don’t want a woman to think or act like a bloke – it’s a big turn-off.

And have you noticed how it happens everywhere - these days you see more and more females following role models like Rosanne Barr and Rosie O'Donnell. And very few like Marilyn Munroe and Sophia Loren. 

I believe that this trend is directly impacting the number of women you attract into your life. And by "impacting" I mean reducing the number of women you can attract into your life.  

When I first realised this I was shocked. But now more and more men seem to be having the same issues.

Let me explain.

In the western world, men are encouraged to be less masculine and more feminine, while women are encouraged to be less feminine and more masculine.  Look around and see if I'm wrong.

Men seem to think they better show off their sensitive, caring and emotional natures.  At the same time, women are encouraged to be single-minded, dominant and career-oriented. The mainstream media tells women to be self-supportive and not to rely on men. Masculine traits in women are now seen as strong, encouraged and necessary.   See if you can find a women these days, who's not been taught to never rely on a man.  And there's no doubt that many men have turned more effeminate in their misguided effort to please and attract women.

So what's the result?

Women don't like it either! While women claimed that they wanted a “man in touch with his feminine side”, it's obvious that this type of behaviour is just not attractive to them.

What a double-edged sword for guys. We're told not be "macho" or "chauvinistic". But being soft and effeminate just puts women off. In trying to please women by being more "sensitive", men have lost their naturally attractive male qualities.  As men have developed a more sensitive side to their characters, women have come to view such men as weak and untrustworthy.

And women are never attracted to men who are weak and untrustworthy.

Well, I've got more to say on this, but tell me what you think.

Is the root cause of this problem a loss of femininity in women? Have you also noticed that women have become less feminine? Or maybe you like to be bossed around and challenged on every decision by women. Is it affecting your relationships and dating?  And who's to blame?

Let's hear what you think.