What The Hell Has Happened To Females and Femininity?

 

Is it just me? Or have you also noticed how western women have become less feminine? Most of the women I meet seem to be always challenging - and sometimes downright aggressive.

Now I'm all for equality - but does it have to mean that women stop being feminine? Surely women can be strong AND feminine.

I mean, there's really nothing attractive about an aggressive, demanding woman is there? Personally, I like a woman to be feminine and confident in her own feminine sexuality. I don’t want a woman to think or act like a bloke – it’s a big turn-off.

And have you noticed how it happens everywhere - these days you see more and more females following role models like Rosanne Barr and Rosie O'Donnell. And very few like Marilyn Munroe and Sophia Loren. 

I believe that this trend is directly impacting the number of women you attract into your life. And by "impacting" I mean reducing the number of women you can attract into your life.  

When I first realised this I was shocked. But now more and more men seem to be having the same issues.

Let me explain.

In the western world, men are encouraged to be less masculine and more feminine, while women are encouraged to be less feminine and more masculine.  Look around and see if I'm wrong.

Men seem to think they better show off their sensitive, caring and emotional natures.  At the same time, women are encouraged to be single-minded, dominant and career-oriented. The mainstream media tells women to be self-supportive and not to rely on men. Masculine traits in women are now seen as strong, encouraged and necessary.   See if you can find a women these days, who's not been taught to never rely on a man.  And there's no doubt that many men have turned more effeminate in their misguided effort to please and attract women.

So what's the result?

Women don't like it either! While women claimed that they wanted a “man in touch with his feminine side”, it's obvious that this type of behaviour is just not attractive to them.

What a double-edged sword for guys. We're told not be "macho" or "chauvinistic". But being soft and effeminate just puts women off. In trying to please women by being more "sensitive", men have lost their naturally attractive male qualities.  As men have developed a more sensitive side to their characters, women have come to view such men as weak and untrustworthy.

And women are never attracted to men who are weak and untrustworthy.

Well, I've got more to say on this, but tell me what you think.

Is the root cause of this problem a loss of femininity in women? Have you also noticed that women have become less feminine? Or maybe you like to be bossed around and challenged on every decision by women. Is it affecting your relationships and dating?  And who's to blame?

Let's hear what you think.