January 20, 2009

What To Do About The Macho Women

Look, we seem to agree that these macho women are not doing us any good. So what can blokes do about it?

I know there still are some “real” men out there who have had enough of the macho women and the girlie men. Don’t you think its time that we stood up for ourselves and got what we really wanted.

Look, I don’t care too much for political correctness, and I pretty much do and say as I please. And when it comes to relationships, there is no more important topic for men.

So let me lay it on the line…

For those guys who are fed up with the current state of affairs then listen up. Here’s how I sorted out my own mess.

The girlie men and masculine women trend is a product of the modern “advanced” society. It’s the culture that we are conditioned with. What I found when travelling is that women (and cultures in general) are not this way in the Far East.

In Asia, the women respect men for who they are. They don’t try to challenge them or make them more sensitive. In simple terms, they want real men – not sissies. It all feels much more natural to me. No need to be something you’re not!

In return, the women act like real women. They are true to their nature. They are feminine, attractive and know how to treat a man. In my experience, they understand a man’s needs much more than the modern day women in the west.

I know this is going to draw some criticism, but so be it. Someone needs to stand up and say it.

If you want to judge me then so be it. Bring it on. The fact is, I think I’m speaking for a large majority of single men and fathers here.

I know what it’s like to be in a dead end marriage and then to find real happiness and romance when you think you never will. I don’t think it’s a man’s problem, it’s a symptom of the “cotton wool” society that we live in today.

But here’s the rub. You don’t need to put up with it anymore. You can find a great woman of the type you’ve always dreamed. I’m talking about an attractive, caring, understanding and sexy women.

The good news is that you have a choice now. You see, when I realised this I made a conscious choice to be with a certain type of woman.

That’s why today I am married to a Thai lady. I was sick of trying to conform and being unhappy so I got clear about exactly what I wanted from my relationship. I love how Thai women are engaged in their femininity and have great confidence in who they are as women.

I know that most western man would be shocked (and pleasantly surprised) if they met women from cultures without years of social conditioning. Women from countries like Thailand, Hong Kong, Indonesia and Vietnam don’t try to defeat and challenge men. No, instead they want to bring out male masculinity and support them.

If you are interested in meeting and attracting women that display their true feminine qualities of incredible sensuality and engaging femininity (while being encouraging, fun and confident), then check out www.meetmennowbankok.com

This is a company that I set up to combat this bad trend. My mission is to help out men who are in the same position that I was in. My wife and I have a created a service that allows you to meet real Thai ladies that we’ve screened and personally know as friends.

This is NOT for men seeking one-night stands or short-term girlfriends. This is strictly for men looking to change their lives and finally have a 100% way of meeting a special woman. I will be providing more details about the service in the coming weeks so stay tuned.

I see this is going to be growing trend in the years ahead. Lets face it… men are sick and tired of being told how to act. It’s time to stand up for our own values and have “real” women in our lives.

Here’s another thing that really irritates me: single women are seen as very strong, balanced and well rounded, where single men are often chastised as being abnormal, gay or weird in some way. Come on guys – are you willing to take this much longer?

Filed under attraction, dating advice, dating services, meeting women by Michael Madison

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January 23, 2009

Joseph @ 9:33 pm

Hi,

Good article. I have read the 1st one also and think you have something here. I think alot of women like to challenge men for some reason. I don't want a bimbo, but I want my own space also and dont need alot of hassle.

When I approach women in bars they are so defensive. They have their shield up before I even speak. What's the deal here? My friends told me that Thai women are more friendly and less defensive, so I might start trying to more now.

Joseph

January 24, 2009

Michael Madison @ 9:40 am

Thanks Joseph,

And you're right.
Whether they're being defensive, or aggressive, or patronizing, or ridiculing,…or whatever……the women have become conditioned to "play a role".
Where that role has come from is interesting and I'm thinking about writing some more about it.
In a country like Thailand, the women haven't been conditioned by church and media to the same extent….and the difference is huge…

Tatiana @ 6:02 pm

Wow … I'm 16 ( I'm still growing so forgive me if I sound childish in any way … I'm doing the best I can to not to ) and I'm from Angola ( West/Central Africa ) … many of the guys here are starting to be increasingly liberal and they steer toward " independent " and " strong " women ( and don't want commitment/marriage sometimes … which is sad ) … I'm traditional/religious and I'm basically seen as weak and a " prude " ( just because I won't give in into peer pressure , do drugs , drink alcohol , don't cuss and am waiting until marriage but I greatly dislike so called virgins like Hannah Montana and Jonas Brothers … they embarass people like me whom are trying to be true … so commercial and fake … I'm just saying this because you don't seem to know that 85 % of Christians these days are from Latin America , Africa , Asia , Eastern Europe and Russia and not from the West as you seem to think … you would be amazed at the huge demographic of us outside the West ) … anyways do men really like feminine women ? I know that most do but seems that " strong " and " independent " women are getting all of the attention

Tatiana @ 6:20 pm

I found your blogspot here http://www.blogcatalog.com/post/fcb23c22edb6b3baf2f65c46358b0e4a

Hopefully I will develop ( and am developing ) into a good soul when I grow up … I don't want to be a pain in the ass … or a bitch … or a feminist ( I shudder at that picture ) … my mother is traditional too ( she is Russian and grew up in the Russian countryside ) … I want to be just like her and even more than that … I'm thinking of taking a degree in Literature or become a secretary … I love work ( and will probably work partial time ) but I want to be a mother , have a family and be a great wife too … I hope that when I'm older I will find a man whom likes me for me

Anyways congratulations on your Thai wife !

I learned a lot from foreign teenage girls and hopefully they learned something from me … these foreign exchanges rock ! ( Even though I don't believe in multiculturalism nor in " tolerance " but in civility )

Have a nice day … wish you the best

January 30, 2009

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